Converstions with Bruno…….What Are they really thinking?
Posted in Be Yourself on 09. Dec, 2010
Ok ladies I’m going to share a treasure I’ve unearthed recently, my friend Bruno!
I’ve decided the only way to know what men are thinking, is to ask them!
Sure there’s nothing like our girl time but sometimes we just talk it in circles and while our girls are good for the consoling and giggling, sometimes you need to hear it from the Y chromosome themselves.
Bruno is 29 and describes himself as Mr Average Joe, but between you and I, his cheeky smile is anything but average. He’s a mans man, loves women and beer in almost equal amounts and thinks a spade is just that…. a spade!
So with this pool of honesty at my fingertips I dived straight in!
“So Bruno how do men really want us to behave when a relationship ends?”
Bruno: “ I’ve had my share of failed relationships, some of which were my fault, the others……. well they were probably my fault too. During that time I have been on the receiving end of everything from “I hope it falls off” to “I’ll do anything to change, I love you please don’t leave me”.
So is there a happy medium?
For me once it’s over that’s it, end of story no contest will be entered into. If you have enough reason to want to end it, I’m not chasing anyone! There aren’t enough hours in the day for me to lose sleep over it and want to chase after someone who clearly doesn’t want to spoon me every night of the week.
How do I expect you to act after you’ve either made my life so much better, or ripped my heart out? Simple: your age, not your shoe size.
It may be a reaction to the way your man takes the news but don’t get angry, don’t pull the whole “it’s not you it’s me’ line”. I have been on the receiving end of one of those beauties and let me tell you, I laughed. I had no choice, if I believed it, I would have broken something, so all I could do was laugh.
Ok, good response: bad response. This is easy, take the wrap for something, not everything but something, it’ll make me feel better, just a bit.
If a guy asks what he can do to change, point him towards the door. it’s too late for that, and a normal red-blooded male will cop it.
Guys don’t tend to have double meanings for things they say. If it is the case then it’s probably because they’ve stuffed up saying what they meant.
If a women ends the relationship, then a normal male will, from my experience, cop it on the chin get on with it and move on. You can act any way you’d like, angry, sad, frustrated happy it doesn’t matter a pinch, especially if I’m not in the picture anymore.
Oh and if I see you in public, I wouldn’t expect you to acknowledge me be it you were the one that ended the relationship, but if your woman enough you’ll acknowledge I still exist and refrain from trying to make me jealous with another guy, because that doesn’t work. It just tells me I dodged a bullet!”
Hotline to the Male Brain
So ladies, that was Bruno, giving us a little insight into what the male brain does when a relationship ends. But remember it’s not always about him, and sometimes no matter what we do or say we can’t change the experience for the person on the other end of the relationship.
Always Be You,
Ms.Fit
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